After working with leaders for years, here’s what I know: few authentic leaders are balanced, nor do they wish to be.
Why? In my experience, balance is hard to achieve, because it’s unappealing to them. What’s appealing to these individuals is what they may describe as a “Beautiful Life.”
Leading a beautiful life is an often forgotten idea. It’s doing great things in ALL pillars of your
life (which is grounded in understanding those pillars in the first place). If you’re only focused on doing great things in your business pillar, there’s no time to be a great spouse, parent, friend or spirit-filled person.
Furthermore, they have crossed paths with far too many “successful” people who, despite outward appearance, led joyless, broken lives.
“Balance” is for people-pleasers. Authentic leaders know better. That's why they choose A Beautiful Life.
You already know the cost. You’ve just stopped counting. A CEO I know has two laughs — the real one, and the one he deploys in meetings. His wife can tell the difference in three seconds. His board can’t tell at all. That gap is where most leaders live.
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Comfort doesn’t announce itself as the enemy — it shows up as a well-earned reward. This week’s truth asks a harder question: when did rest become the destination?
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